| Everyone knows they are going
to die sooner or later. While we all hope it is “later”, we should put our
affairs in order for the benefit of our loved ones. Great comfort can be
achieved by knowing that advance planning for the inevitable will have eased the
trauma of your passing for your family. All
too often, when a family member dies, relatives have no idea where the deceased’s
important papers are located. As a result, this creates an additional burden
on the grieving loved ones. By putting our affairs in order, we can
simplify the necessary responsibilities our family members will be required to
handle. The
most important considerations to be addressed for this time are as follows:
* Create a will: Conference with
your attorney to draft a list of your final wishes, i.e. burial preferences, asset
allocations, etc. *
Create a living will: This instrument will appoint someone of your choice to make
decisions regarding life-sustaining medical care in the event of your incapacitation.
* Durable power of attorney: This
is given by you to a person of your choice to make medical decisions on your behalf
if you are unable to communicate. Recently,
there was a case where a woman had been in a coma for twenty
years. She was, of course, unable to communicate. Her
husband wanted her to be
removed from life support; her parents disagreed
and this battle went to the courts. The United States
Government even got into
the fray. Eventually, the Supreme Court ruled
in favor of the husband and the woman was allowed to die. \ This
case brought to the general public the importance of having a living
will and power of attorney stating your wishes when you are unable
to do so. *
Finances: Debts: This information should be located in a place known to your beneficiaries.
List whatever debts your spouse or estate may be responsible for after your death
such as property tax, liens, etc. *
Finances: Assets: List all assets for your beneficiaries, such as:
- Life insurance policy or
policies -
Pensions -
Ira, Keogh, etc. -
Social Security benefits -
Medical insurance coverage -
Veterans benefits -
Checking and bank accounts -
Certificates of Deposit -
Stocks and bonds -
Real estate holdings -
Miscellaneous investments Be
sure to list any and all assets not covered by the above - including documented
personal loans to friends or business associates. *
Applicable personal documents: -
Birth certificate -
Passport -
Social Security information -
Divorce decree -
Military discharge papers -
Naturalization papers -
Adoption papers -
Income tax retFuneral Options for past seven years *
Miscellaneous insurance coverage documents: -
Automobile -
Property -
Accident -
Hospitalization Information
should also be available regarding friends, business associates, organization
memberships, financial planner, insurance agents and attorney or attorneys.
* Credit cards: -
Account numbers -
Contact information Your
loved ones should be advised of the location of these documents so they can be
readily accessed after your death. Cremations
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